Sex, Honestly

From Jan. 1 to Feb. 14, 2013, sexuality educator Reid Mahalko will offer daily 10-minute video lessons on improving your relationships. Check out one of his free sample videos. If you want the series promo, listen to the whole thing. Otherwise, for a truly excellent analogy for the importance of sexual mindfulness, start the video clip at 2:24.

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I read a sex advice column today that mentions the G spot, A spot, U spot and C spot — all on the female body. Seriously, can we get away from this trend of making up names? The U spot is the opening to the urethra (yes, some men and women like it stimulated); the C spot is the clitoris; the G spot  is an internal pleasure zone for  some but not all women; and the A spot isn’t the anus — it’s a nerve-dense area...

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The re-release of cult-classic film Harold and Maude, 30 years after it was first seen by audiences, had reporter Maura Kelly wondering whether Hollywood has changed in its depiction of older adults and sex.  The resultant story can be read here.  I was quoted in the article about what movies give us and what I wish we’d see more of.  For example: “Enough with the constant references to Viagra!” says Davis,...

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Between the beginning of March 2012 and April 11, a small group of sexologists build a website called SaferSex4Seniors.org in a partnership with DDB NYC, a powerful ad agency behind a campaign to get older adults to use condoms to stem the tide of STDs among seniors.  DDB NCY created a joyful video that has helped drive traffic to our website for more information on safer sex and relationships. The video has had around 880,000 views...

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A new website promoting safer sex for older adults had an explosive launch this week, thanks for a humorous video that has gone viral.  Created by DDB Worldwide, the PSA features joyful seniors, fully dressed, acting out sexual intercourse positions from the Kama Sutra.  The PSA drives traffic to SaferSex4Seniors.org, a website I’m very proud to be coordinating. On the website, you can watch the PSA, download a free poster, and...

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Do Animals Hate Gays?


Posted By on Mar 7, 2012

We’ve heard it time and again, homosexuality is “unnatural.” Except…it’s not, if you measure what’s natural by what occurs in nature. Researchers have identified same-sex sexual behavior in 1,500 species. Yep, 1,500 living, breathing species are gettin’ down with their own kind. I’ve never had a problem with same-sex attraction or action, and I’ve never cared whether it was natural...

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